Woman Pens Craigslist Letter to Abused Dog’s Former Owner

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A few days ago, New Hampshire author and director Alex de Campi posted what started out as a letter on Craiglist to her rescued dog’s former owner, but it has since gone viral as a touching tribute to the badly abused dog, who has spent the last three years as a member of a loving family. She concluded the letter by saying, P.S. you can’t have her back.

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On Feb 9th 2011, you were evicted from an apartment at 20 Catherine St and your old red pit bull was seized by animal control and taken to the kill shelter. She was really skinny and had bad skin infections, and had been bred A LOT. She’d even had a Caesarian, judging by the scar. They said at the kill shelter she was 12 years old. She also had a lopsided face and it looked like there were a few cigarette burns on her head/ears.

I figure you were having a pretty bad time of it, since you were being evicted. I hope things have gotten better for you in the intervening years. Although it’s unlikely you’ll ever see this note, I just wanted you to know that I have your dog and she is doing great.

20 Catherine St 13B pitbull pup

The AC named her Cathy, for Catherine Street. She was held for cruelty investigation (she was REALLY skinny) then immediately put on the kill list, which is the sort of irony that happens at Animal Care & Control every day. I like old dogs and I loved Cathy’s little lopsided face. A rescue pulled her for me and sent her north.

She gained weight and recovered from her skin issues. Her coat shines now and you can’t see the little round cigarette burn marks any more. We spayed her (her hormones were really out of whack from all the litters she had). She has been wonderful with my young daughter, and our other two dogs. And it turns out she loves to swim! She loves fetch too. If she really was 12 back in 2011, that would make her 15 now but I doubt that as she still will go on long hikes with me, and swim and retrieve balls from the bay until she can barely stand… even though, yes, her face is turning white. She is truly an ambassador for her breed, even people who don’t like pits will stop and pat her as she happily wags her tail. She loves to sleep in sunbeams, and is so happy to go on walks or swims she just wags her tail with every step.

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She is sleeping next to me as I type this, grunting with joy. In fact, she sleeps on my bed every night. Your dog is an awesome dog. We love her so much. The past three years we’ve had with her have brought us (and her) so much happiness.

If you do see this, we’d love to know how old she is, and what your name for her was. Also please say a prayer for her, as soon she is going to have mammary surgery to remove some small lumps… unfortunately not spaying a dog and breeding her a lot means she is very likely to get mammary cancer and Cathy has it. Luckily my vet caught it early, so I am hoping Cathy can spend many more happy years with us. She really is the best dog.

P.S. you can’t have her back.

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A fundraiser was started on YouCaring with a $4,000 goal to help cover Cathy’s surgery, but that goal has already been exceeded by the many people who were touched by her story. If you would like to donate, just remember, there are many dogs in shelters and on YouCaring that could use some help.

Alex de Campi is a volunteer and foster mom for the Red Hook Dog Rescue in Brooklyn. If you can’t adopt, please consider becoming a foster parent and saving a life like Cathy’s today.

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7 thoughts on “Woman Pens Craigslist Letter to Abused Dog’s Former Owner”

  1. BRAVA! You’ve saved a lovely dog and doing what every dog owner who can afford it should do. We have three dogs right now, all rescues, two are Pit Bulls, one a Newfoundland mix. Our female Pit was used for breeding and then tied to a fence and abandoned. She has scars from something. She’s around 3 years old and is one of the loveliest, friendliest, and sweetest dogs you could ever meet. She sleeps in a crate in our bedroom, as our male Pit sleeps on the bed with us, and our Newfie mix sleeps on a nice large dog bed, also in our bedroom. Most people don’t know Pits were used as nanny dogs in England – playmates and guardians of young children, along with working on farms, and other jobs.

  2. Oh my, that just left me in tears…sad tears for her past, but happier tears now that she is with you. My Pitbull was tied to a tree with no water or food. Someone apparently “tried” to crop his ears because they were bleeding profusely. He is about 12 years old. I’ve had him for about 11. Thank you for saving that sweet doggies life. I’m still teared up…thank you from the bottom of my heart for writing this letter and sharing you and Cathy’s story. xoxo

  3. I too have your dog and I did not get it legally- my daughter picked it up off the side of the road laying on its dead companion crying. I have had her spayed and vaccinated and next on her list is heartworm treatment. She is a young female- brindle and white sort of Pittey looking but throws her feet like a Boxer-weights 38.5 lbs now and is growing back her hair. Since I am 70 years old and already have 7 rescues plus cat,horses and donkey rescues I really do not need to keep Lovebug but hope to find a North Florida-South Georgia rescue that will take her in and find her a good furever home-she loves children-watched her play with two 4 year olds half an hour the day I got her and also loves adults- anyone who will pay her any attention. This loyal dog who was willing to stay with her hit by car friend/ mother/whatever does not deserve to die or to go back where she was not cared for before. Please help.


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